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"letter to a friend"

  • Does it console you?
  • Dec 2, 2015
  • 4 min read

When you’re feeling resentful or angry about something, it’s worth to consider why. Watch your resentment. Every person portrays humanism in them, which means people are characterized to be basically good and that problems can be easily solved. Observe what is happening to the society today. Is giving up and running away an option?

There are two ways how to cope up with this matter. First, you could be pro-active and look for better solutions. You could ask for someone’s help with your problem instead of running away from it. The second one is you can actively choose to take on these responsibilities. Mature thinking includes being aware of any selfish thinking, and that is where compassion begins. You have to help yourself when nobody’s there for you. There will be time where all you have will be lost, and only yourself will remain. We are all know the saying “Life is so unfair” where good outcomes can’t be in only one forever. We are all blessed, but some are more blessed. Imperfections? Yes, we all have that. Even the person you thought to be perfect when you were young, our parents does. As you grow older, you realize different things in life. You learn to separate important to inconsequential. And most importantly you learn to show empathy to others. Try to put yourself in the shoes of another person and imagine what they’re going through. Thus, you will know more about the situation. Some parents can’t give the needs and likeness of their children due to lacking of financial capacity. It is a responsibility for a parent to give the needs of their children but in some instance, they are not able to make it. So you, as a children will now decide to run away from it because it’s the easiest way for a child to approach a problem. Running away should not be an option to every decisions in your life. As a good daughter and son, in hard times like this, you could be the power of your parents to be stronger. You can also help them by taking responsibilities like earning money in a simple way that you can. Helping them means helping yourself because you know it is for your own good also.

Running away and giving up is never an option because in every problem, there is a solution. It may take time, but all we have to do is to wait and see for the good outcome. Then, we can say it is worth the sacrifice.

When you’re feeling resentful or angry about something, it’s worth to consider why. Watch your resentment. Every person portrays humanism in them, which means people are characterized to be basically good and that problems can be easily solved. Observe what is happening to the society today. Is giving up and running away an option?

There are two ways how to cope up with this matter. First, you could be pro-active and look for better solutions. You could ask for someone’s help with your problem instead of running away from it. The second one is you can actively choose to take on these responsibilities. Mature thinking includes being aware of any selfish thinking, and that is where compassion begins. You have to help yourself when nobody’s there for you. There will be time where all you have will be lost, and only yourself will remain. We are all know the saying “Life is so unfair” where good outcomes can’t be in only one forever. We are all blessed, but some are more blessed. Imperfections? Yes, we all have that. Even the person you thought to be perfect when you were young, our parents does. As you grow older, you realize different things in life. You learn to separate important to inconsequential. And most importantly you learn to show empathy to others. Try to put yourself in the shoes of another person and imagine what they’re going through. Thus, you will know more about the situation. Some parents can’t give the needs and likeness of their children due to lacking of financial capacity. It is a responsibility for a parent to give the needs of their children but in some instance, they are not able to make it. So you, as a children will now decide to run away from it because it’s the easiest way for a child to approach a problem. Running away should not be an option to every decisions in your life. As a good daughter and son, in hard times like this, you could be the power of your parents to be stronger. You can also help them by taking responsibilities like earning money in a simple way that you can. Helping them means helping yourself because you know it is for your own good also.

Running away and giving up is never an option because in every problem, there is a solution. It may take time, but all we have to do is to wait and see for the good outcome. Then, we can say it is worth the sacrifice.


 
 
 

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